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He stood in front of our guests with that smug grin, letting his words land like stones. \u201cHow much of my money did you spend on today?\u201d he called out, then louder, as if the silence needed to be filled: \u201cYou don\u2019t even have a job or a baby.\u201d My hands trembled around the tray of appetizers, and I felt all the air rush out of the room. I wanted to disappear, sink into the floor, melt into the background\u2014but then my father\u2019s voice cut through the tension, steady and sharp: \u201cShe chose someone like you. Now she\u2019s exactly where you wanted her\u2014depending on you.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The words seemed to freeze the room. Guests exchanged uneasy glances, unsure where to look, while Aidan\u2019s smirk faltered for the briefest second. My mother stepped forward, voice calm but firm: \u201cShe cleaned, cooked, hosted. If it\u2019s a job, pay her.\u201d There was a pause, and for a moment, I felt a flicker of relief. 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