After 24 years as a pediatrician, I thought I had seen every kind of challenging visit. Then a mother arrived with her 5-year-old son for a routine checkup and immediately told me they practiced gentle parenting and that I needed to “honor his autonomy.” Moments later, the boy began deliberately spitting at me while his mother smiled and brushed it off by saying, “He likes you.”<\/p>\n
I stayed calm and politely asked the child to stop. Instead of supporting the request, his mother became furious, accusing me of traumatizing her son. She raised her voice so loudly that the nurse outside the room opened the door to make sure everything was okay.<\/p>\n
Rather than argue, I quietly picked up the small handheld mirror I use to show children their teeth and held it up so the boy could see himself while he was spitting. He paused immediately, looked at his own reflection, then looked at his mother and back at me. After a brief silence, he softly said, “I’m sorry.”<\/p>\n
I accepted his apology, completed the examination, and gave him a sticker before they left. The boy smiled and waved goodbye, while his mother remained silent all the way to reception. That visit has stayed with me because it reminded me that sometimes the child is the most reasonable person in the room\u2014you just have to help them see themselves.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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