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I calmly handed one officer the unsigned power-of-attorney form, the authorization sheet requesting my PIN, and printed copies of the emails discussing how they planned to wait until after the marriage license was signed. The silence that followed was far louder than their excuses.<\/p>\n<p>Security asked whether I wished to leave, and I answered, \u201cYes.\u201d David finally stepped aside, his face drained of color. As I reached the hallway, he hurried after me, pleading that he had never intended for things to go this far. I stopped long enough to ask one question. \u201cIf I had signed everything without reading it, would you have told me the truth?\u201d He opened his mouth, but no words came. His silence was the only answer I needed.<\/p>\n<p>The courthouse appointment came and went without us. Within days, I closed the joint account, recovered every dollar I was legally entitled to, and reported the unauthorized transfers with the documentation I had saved. 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