After 24 years as a pediatrician, I thought I had seen every parenting style imaginable. Then a mother brought her 5-year-old son in for a routine checkup and immediately explained that they practiced gentle parenting and that I needed to “honor his autonomy.” Within minutes, the little boy was deliberately spitting on me over and over, while his mother simply smiled and said, “He likes you.”<\/p>\n
I stayed calm and politely asked him to stop. Before I could say anything else, his mother exploded, accusing me of traumatizing her child. She yelled so loudly that the nurse outside opened the exam room door to make sure everything was okay.<\/p>\n
Instead of arguing, I quietly picked up the small handheld mirror I use to show children their teeth and held it up so the boy could see himself while he was spitting. He stopped instantly, stared at his reflection, then looked at his mother before turning back to me. In a soft voice, he said, “I’m sorry.” His mother’s face went pale as I calmly finished the exam and handed him a sticker.<\/p>\n
As they left, the little boy smiled, waved goodbye, and walked out without another incident. His mother remained silent all the way to reception. I’ve thought about that child many times since, because sometimes the most reasonable person in the room isn’t the adult\u2014it just takes the right moment to help a child see the difference between their actions and who they want to be.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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